All
thoughts, speech or actions in life should be directed towards two basic goals;
one, to provide happiness to others and secondly, attain self-happiness in
consequence.
Our
ancient texts and scriptures - Upanishads, Yoga Sutras of Patanjali - have
discoursed on “the right speech” and so did Buddha. According to Gautam Buddha,
the right speech has three components:
- It should be based
on truthfulness.
- It should be
necessary, and
- It should be kind.
All
the three components have to be in the same sequence with truthfulness being on
the top.
For
example, a patient asks a doctor, “Am I going to die in the next few weeks or
will I survive longer”? The truth may be that he is critically ill and may not
survive but it is not necessary to speak the truth and also it is not kind.
Therefore, that truth should not be spoken.
Lord
Krishna in Mahabharata explained when not to speak the truth and when to speak
a lie. The truth which is going to harm the society may not be spoken and a lie
which can save the life of a person without harming others may be spoken.
- A truth which is
necessary and kind may be spoken.
- A truth which is
not necessary but kind may not be spoken.
- A truth which is
necessary but not kind may not be spoken.
- A truth which is
neither necessary and nor kind may not be spoken.
Vedic
teaching says that one should live according to dharma or “the right action” to
achieve good karma. This means doing what is right for the individual, the
family and for the universe.
According
to the Bhagavata Purana, righteous living or life on a dharmic path has four
pillars: truthfulness (satya), austerity (tap), purity (shauch) and compassion
(daya). While, adharmic or unrighteous life has three main vices: pride
(ahankar), bad company (sangh) and intoxication (madya).
Manusmriti
also prescribes ten essential rules to tread the path of dharma: Patience
(dhriti), forgiveness (kshama), piety or self-control (dama), honesty (asteya),
sanctity (shauch), control of senses (indriya-nigrah), reason (dhi), knowledge
or learning (vidya), truthfulness (satya) and absence of anger (krodha). Manu
further writes, “Non-violence, truth, non-coveting, purity of body and mind,
control of senses are the essence of dharma”.
The
very first word of the Gita is “Dharma” - “Dharmakshetre Kurukshetra
Samavetayuyutsavaha”, which means the battle of dharma and adharma. The
Gita concludes with the word “Mama”. The essence of Bhagavada Gita is contained
in these two words ‘Mama’ and ‘Dharma’. Combined together, these two words
become “mamadharma”, meaning ‘your true Dharma’. This is what the Gita teaches
us, “What is your Dharma?”
To
live your life as per your dharma signifies the right action in every moment of
the life. To inculcate the spirit of Dharma, practice random acts of kindness.
Do not follow the dictates of body and do not indiscriminately follow the mind,
for the mind is like a mad monkey. Follow the conscience.
Follow
Buddha’s principles of right speech: Before you speak, ask yourself: Is it the
truth? Is it necessary? Is it kind? If the answer to any is ‘no’, do not speak.
Follow
Buddha’s principles of right action: Before doing any action ask yourself: Is
it the truth? Is it necessary? Will it bring happiness to me? Will it bring
happiness to others? If the answer to any is ‘no’, do not do that action.
Dr KK Aggarwal
Padma Shri Awardee
Vice President CMAAO
Group Editor-in-Chief IJCP Publications
Vice President CMAAO
Group Editor-in-Chief IJCP Publications
President Heart Care Foundation of India
Immediate Past National President IMA
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