Showing posts with label I am sorry. Show all posts
Showing posts with label I am sorry. Show all posts

Sunday, April 8, 2018

Apology works




AIIMS New Delhi, a premier institute of the country, has tendered an apology to a patient who underwent a wrong procedure.

The written apology was sent to the 30-year-old patient, a resident of Bihar, and her husband was contacted with an offer for additional treatment. Allegedly, an arteriovenous fistula was made in the patient who did not have any kidney-related illness and instead was seeking treatment for pain in abdomen. AV fistula is created surgically in chronic kidney disease patients undergoing dialysis. Documents were allegedly tampered with to cover up the medical negligence.

Primum non nocere i.e. “first (above all) do no harm” is the cardinal principle that guides the ethics of practice of medicine. From it is derived the principle of non maleficence (do no harm) and its natural corollary, the principle of beneficence (do good).

Doctors never harm a patient intentionally. But sometimes, errors do happen even with all precautions.

In the event of any unanticipated adverse incident or outcome that may cause harm to the patient, patients now want answers. They can no longer be pacified with medical jargon; instead, they want to know the facts of the matter and the circumstances leading to it. They also want to know if a medical error could have caused the adverse outcome and want doctors and establishments to apologize to them, if the error was ‘avoidable’.

Non disclosure or ‘hushing up’ of errors increases feelings of anger and blame in the patients and creates distrust between the doctor and patient. And the aftermath is well-familiar to us all – negligence lawsuits against doctors and hospitals or angry relatives and friends ransacking the hospital or assaulting the doctor and other staff.

Apologize to the patient in such situations…an apology works.

While an apology does not undo the damage caused, it can alleviate the resulting feelings of anger and distrust. An apology can be either with admission of guilt or without admission of guilt.

But doctors find it difficult to admit to a mistake. Doctors are apprehensive - quite rightly so, given the absence of apology laws in the country - that apologizing for a mistake can be considered an ‘admission of guilt’ and used as evidence in courts of law.

Some states in the US have apology laws that protect an apology from being admissible as evidence in courts of law in medical negligence cases

While saying sorry for any wrong done is an immediate instinct of human nature, on the other hand, the fear of ensuing litigation prevents doctors from admitting to their mistakes. It is a classic ‘Catch-22’ situation because the outcome may anyway be a medical malpractice claim now or at a later date, when the mistake may be discovered.

Saying “I/We have made a mistake” and acknowledging that mistake with an apology takes lot of courage. But it goes a long way in restoring trust between the doctor and the patient and may defuse a situation that is just ready to explode.

Opinion 8.121 of the American Medical Association (AMA) Code of Medical Ethics says “Physicians must offer professional and compassionate concern toward patients who have been harmed, regardless of whether the harm was caused by a health care error. An expression of concern need not be an admission of responsibility. When patient harm has been caused by an error, physicians should offer a general explanation regarding the nature of the error and the measures being taken to prevent similar occurrences in the future. Such communication is fundamental to the trust that underlies the patient-physician relationship, and may help reduce the risk of liability.”

The Joint Commission standard also says, “Patients and, when appropriate, their families are informed about the outcomes of care, including unanticipated outcomes” (RI. 1.2.2).

Related links

·           Medical Errors: “I am sorry” http://drkkaggarwal.blogspot.in/2017/09/medical-errors-i-am-sorry.html
·           The spiritual prescription: "I am sorry" http://issue.emedinews.in/archive/13_6_14.html


Dr KK Aggarwal
Padma Shri Awardee
Vice President CMAAO
Group Editor-in-Chief IJCP Publications
President Heart Care Foundation of India
Immediate Past National President IMA

Wednesday, July 3, 2013

Spiritual Blog:The spiritual prescription "I am sorry"



Two hardest words for a doctor to say: “I’m sorry.”

Most defense lawyers counsels doctors not to apologize to patients. Their view is that  if you say you’re sorry for something, you are implicitly taking some degree of responsibility for whatever has happened or in other words you are pleading guilty. The complainant’s lawyers may use a doctor’s apology to the maximum extent possible to show the doctor knew what they did was wrong. The usual approach is deny and defend.

But

1.         Apologizing after a medical error is the humane thing to do.
2.         Patients often sue simply because it’s the only way to find out what went wrong. 
3.         Erecting a wall of silence is “enough to make someone very angry. And it’s awfully easy for an angry person to find a lawyer who will listen to them. At that point, it’s too late for sorry.
4.         Over 35 states in the USA have passed laws prohibiting doctors’ apologies from being used against them in court. {apology laws)
5.         By promptly disclosing medical errors and offering earnest apologies and fair compensation one can hope to restore integrity to dealings with patients, make it easier to learn from mistakes and dilute anger that often fuels lawsuits.

Apology the spiritual answer

1.         The word ‘sorry’ is synonymous with apology.
2.         To err is human, to admit one’s error is superhuman.
3.         Sorry should be heart felt and not ego felt. You should not only say sorry but it should look like that you are sorry.
4.         Tremendous courage is entailed to face the victim of our wrong doing and apologise. 
5.         It is generally seen that those who are in harmony with their life and consequently with themselves, find it easier to say ‘I’m sorry’. They are the positive, conscientious ones who are at peace only after making amends for their misdeeds.
6.         The word ‘sorry’ in itself is imbued with so much potential and power. Within a fraction of a second, grave mistakes are diluted, tepid and estranged relations are brought alive, animosity and rancour are dissolved, misunderstandings resolved and tense situations ease out resulting in harmony and rapprochement.
7.         To forgive and forget is a common spiritual saying

8.         Remember we all do mistakes and seek forgiveness form GOD every day.